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94% Tomatometer 218 Reviews 64% Audience Score 250+ Verified Ratings From acclaimed filmmaker Nicole Holofcener comes a sharply observed comedy about a novelist whose long standing marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband give his honest reaction to her latest book. A film about trust, lies, and the things we say to the people we love most. Read More Read Less Watch on Fandango at Home Premiered May 14 Buy Now

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Smart, funny, and above all entertaining, You Hurt My Feelings finds writer-director Nicole Holofcener as sharply perceptive as ever.

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You Hurt My Feelings is well-acted and sometimes funny, but it's also slow -- and it can be hard to care about the problems of some fairly unlikable characters.

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You Hurt My Feelings | Rotten Tomatoes (1) Tim Robey Daily Telegraph (UK) The film is mature, relatable and risks being terminally uncool – full of evident chagrin from Holofcener that she can’t be a new voice these days, but also comfortably embracing the old one. Rated: 3/5 Aug 10, 2023 Full Review You Hurt My Feelings | Rotten Tomatoes (2) Larushka Ivan-Zadeh metro.co.uk The film is ultimately saved by a self-awareness of its own absurdly privileged viewpoint. Rated: 4/5 Aug 8, 2023 Full Review You Hurt My Feelings | Rotten Tomatoes (3) Iana Murray Empire Magazine A delightful, hilarious and deeply human film about the innate contradictions we refuse to accept. Rated: 4/5 Aug 8, 2023 Full Review You Hurt My Feelings | Rotten Tomatoes (4) Andrew Galdi Movie Bitches Its watchable, it’s charming, it just doesn’t have that much to say Rated: B Apr 24, 2024 Full Review You Hurt My Feelings | Rotten Tomatoes (5) Ezequiel Boetti Otroscines.com A movie with deeply humanist roots that relies on the remarkable performance of Louis-Dreyfus, one of those artists who acts without seeming like she's performing. [Full review in Spanish] Rated: 3.5/5 Apr 5, 2024 Full Review You Hurt My Feelings | Rotten Tomatoes (6) Philip Concannon The Skinny Julia Louis-Dreyfus plays Beth’s sense of betrayal beautifully – it’s hilarious, but rooted in real pain. It again makes you wonder why she hasn’t had more opportunities to carry a film. Rated: 4/5 Feb 7, 2024 Full Review Read all reviews

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Judy Comedy, action, drama Rated 0.5/5 Stars • Rated 0.5 out of 5 stars 07/24/23 Full Review Engin O Really sweet, entertaining, endearing, and hilarious comedy. Wonderful movie Rated 5/5 Stars • Rated 5 out of 5 stars 07/21/23 Full Review Jessica B Cute story I really like Julia Louis-Dreyfus. I liked her husband's interactions with his patients and Julia's relationship with her sister and mother. The story was a bit surface, but an enjoyable movie. Rated 4/5 Stars • Rated 4 out of 5 stars 07/16/23 Full Review Clay and Sujata Thought provoking, touching, kind, and beautifully acted. Rated 5/5 Stars • Rated 5 out of 5 stars 07/08/23 Full Review Charles D I expected this to be a chick flick but found it to be a good story line I could relate to. Rated 5/5 Stars • Rated 5 out of 5 stars 06/17/23 Full Review Kelly very funny & kept your interest Rated 5/5 Stars • Rated 5 out of 5 stars 06/16/23 Full Review Read all reviews Post a rating

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Nicole Holofcener Director Julia Louis-Dreyfus Beth Tobias Menzies Don Michaela Watkins Sarah Arian Moayed Mark Owen Teague Eliot
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Synopsis From acclaimed filmmaker Nicole Holofcener comes a sharply observed comedy about a novelist whose long standing marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband give his honest reaction to her latest book. A film about trust, lies, and the things we say to the people we love most.

Director
Nicole Holofcener

Producer
Johnny Holland, Gregory Zuk

Screenwriter
Nicole Holofcener

Distributor
A24

Production Co
FilmNation Entertainment, Likely Story

Rating
R (Language)

Genre
Comedy, Drama, Romance

Original Language
English

Release Date (Theaters)
May 26, 2023, Wide

Release Date (Streaming)
Jun 22, 2023

Box Office (Gross USA)
$3.8M

Runtime
1h 33m

Sound Mix
Dolby Digital
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Streaming on Roku. You Hurt My Feelings, a romance movie starring Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Tobias Menzies, and Michaela Watkins is available to stream now. Watch it on hoopla Digital, Paramount Plus, The Roku Channel, Fandango at Home, Prime Video, Plex - Kostenlose Filme & TV or Apple TV on your Roku device.

Why is the movie You Hurt My Feelings rated R? ›

The MPAA rating has been assigned for “language.” The Kids-In-Mind.com evaluation includes a few kissing scenes between a married couple, partial non-sexual nudity, an armed robbery, scenes of the sale of marijuana in a store, a woman smoking marijuana, many arguments, and over 20 F-words and other strong language.

How does the movie You Hurt My Feelings end? ›

She eventually finds a new, more enthusiastic agent. One year later, Beth's novel is published. Don and Beth, now reconciled, celebrate their anniversary together. Don decides to go through eye surgery, and Beth tells him that he's going to look great.

Who is Carolyn in You Hurt My Feelings? ›

Amber Tamblyn: Carolyn

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No, You Hurt My Feelings will not be on Netflix.

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Rated PG: Parental guidance suggested – Some material may not be suitable for children. Rated PG-13: Parents strongly cautioned – Some material may be inappropriate for children under 13. Rated R: Restricted – Under 17 requires accompanying parent or adult guardian. Rated X: No one under 17 admitted.

What is worse than rated R? ›

The NC-17 rating is the highest rating (even higher than the R-rating) that a film can be given, and it means the movie is for adults only (ages 18 and older) and no one age 17 or younger will be admitted. This rating, prior to 1990, was previously rated X.

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What is the betrayal in You Hurt My Feelings? ›

But when she overhears him admitting that he actually doesn't like it, her world spirals into chaos. The lie Don has been telling to support his wife, through another lens, is nothing short of a betrayal. Even more existentially threatening is the question of how he can love Beth if he doesn't love her work.

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You Hurt My Feelings was filmed in New York and New York City. The complete list of the locations with latitude and longitude coordinates are listed below in the table.

Is "You Hurt My Feelings" a comedy? ›

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: to upset someone : to make someone feel bad.

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