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LlynPTue 24-Sep-19 12:28:40

Hi, my great-nephew is 18 next month and I would like to give him some cash but have no idea how much it should be. He doesn't live near me and I have little contact with him but we were very close up to when he was about 10 years old as we lived close by.

Any ideas on how much would be reasonable please? I'm not loaded with money but wouldn't want to do anything that might be deemed insulting either.

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GonegirlTue 24-Sep-19 12:29:41

Five hundred pounds?

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MawBTue 24-Sep-19 12:32:14

I was going to say £100
#meanandstingy

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newnannyTue 24-Sep-19 12:34:02

Only you know what you can afford but if you were close in his formative childhood years and you are fond of him I assume you want to treat him. I give £50 to my nephews and nieces when they turn 18. I could give more but I think that is enough. I also give them £100 when they go to Uni and £100 when they graduate.

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FairiesfollyTue 24-Sep-19 12:35:51

I should think anything would be welcome at 18. Give what you can afford and what your finances allow. Maybe buy a nice gift and send it, that way if your finances are in short supply he will not know how much it cost. You can buy gifts online and they will send for you with wrapping and a card if needs be. Search gifts for boys etc.

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MissAdventureTue 24-Sep-19 12:47:01

I would say £100 if you can afford it.

If not, anything would be great, I'm sure.

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newnannyTue 24-Sep-19 12:50:21

You might also need to consider how many nieces and nephews you have. I have 14 on my side of family and 3 on dh side so 17 in all. You may only have 1 or 2.

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GonegirlTue 24-Sep-19 12:57:52

Sorry, read it as grandson. Fifty or a hundred fine for great nephew.

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knickas63Tue 24-Sep-19 13:02:23

£50 is absolutely fine if you can afford it.

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whywhywhyTue 24-Sep-19 13:04:36

I would say £100 is a good amount but it is up to you as to what you can afford.

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M0nica Tue 24-Sep-19 14:05:11

As long as a piece of string, dependant on your means.

When my god daughter's children were small I gave them £25 for Christmas and birthdays. This ended when they were 18 when I gave them £200.

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silverlining48Tue 24-Sep-19 15:06:06

Agree that £50 is more than generous. Unless you are very rich in which case £100 is super generous but as newnanny says, consider if you have a lot of nephews/nieces coming if age.

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KatyKTue 24-Sep-19 15:38:56

I'd give 50.

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GabriellaG54Tue 24-Sep-19 16:05:05

I too think that £50 is plenty. After all, you have barely any contact and he's not exactly a close relative.
I personally don't/wouldn't give anything to great or great great grandchildren on their 18th if they've done nothing to deserve it, except live (with parents footing the bill) for 18 years.

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GabriellaG54Tue 24-Sep-19 16:06:55

Sorry...meant great or great great nephew/niece.

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Esther1Tue 24-Sep-19 17:15:19

£20 is enough if you don’t have much contact.

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gillybobTue 24-Sep-19 17:23:55

Blimey deep breath, some of you must be made of money ! Genuinely shocked that someone would consider giving a great nephew that they have no contact with £500 or even £100 for a birthday . I couldn’t even give that to my own child or grandchild . 18th birthday money | Gransnet (1)

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Coolgran65Tue 24-Sep-19 17:24:15

I think £50 is plenty.
It is a gesture, and plenty of you haven't been seeing him regularly.

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callgirl1Tue 24-Sep-19 21:30:30

I may seem stingy, but I`m not well off, my grandchildren have each received £20 at 18, then £25 at 21. All the other birthdays they got £10 whilst at school, then £5 for ever after. There are 7 of them, but one is still only 11.

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GonegirlTue 24-Sep-19 22:21:33

Oh for goodness sake gillybob. I said five hundred because I thought it was a grandson. I wouldn't give that much to a nephew I didn't have anything to do. Wouldn't actually give him anything. Might manage a card.

I am really sorry you are hard up. Life is not always fair.

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GonegirlTue 24-Sep-19 22:22:21

Definitely wouldn't give him anything.

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Sara65Tue 24-Sep-19 22:26:24

I agree maybe a hundred, That seems about right to me

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RebelliousTue 24-Sep-19 22:29:38

Give him what doesn't negatively affect your finances. £18 pounds would be a fun amount.

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MissAdventureTue 24-Sep-19 22:29:49

I've changed my mind.
£50 now I've thought more about it.
I must have been full of the joys of spring this morning, and not my usual (tight) self.

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How much cash to give for an 18th birthday? ›

If you're planning to give cash for an 18th birthday, the amount depends on your relationship with the birthday person and your budget. Close family members, on average, give somewhere between $50 and $200, while friends and other family members typically give between $20 and $50.

How much money is enough for a birthday? ›

$25 is the ideal amount of money to spend on a gift for a classmate or friend. When it comes to buying birthday gifts for other kids, experts agree that $25 is the sweet spot—no matter the relationship. You can't go wrong if you spend around $20 to $30, says Porter.

Is $100 a good birthday gift? ›

It appears that the general amount for a birthday celebration is around $25, no matter the relationship. Money etiquette experts suggest spending $10 to $20 for classmates while expanding the budget to $25 for close friends, $50 for relatives and upwards of $100 for your own children. Ever heard of a Fiver party?

How much cash to give a niece for her birthday? ›

Kid's friends, $20-25: It's unlikely you'd have your kindergartner give a $20 bill to a friend, but this is still a helpful guide if you want to give a gift card or gift certificate. Relatives, $50: You can spend a little more for birthdays of relatives, like nieces or nephews. But you don't need to be extravagant.

How much do you give an 18 year old? ›

Weekly average pocket money by age in the UK
AgePocket money weekly average (2022)Pocket money weekly average (2021)
15 year old£13.76£13.74
16 year old£14.68£15.11
17 year old£14.48£14.79
18 year old£12.28£13.66
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What is an appropriate cash gift? ›

If it's a co-worker or a distant friend, TheKnot.com recommends guests give at least $75-$100 on the wedding present. If your guest is a relative or a friend, the wedding website suggests somewhere between $100 and $125. But what kind of gift can you expect?

Is 25 enough for a birthday gift? ›

Close Friend

You don't want to under or overspend (although it's probably always better to spend a bit more than a bit less). On average, spending $25-$75 on a close friend is a good rule of thumb. Although you might want to spend closer to the $25 mark if you plan on giving gifts to two or three close friends.

Is cash a good birthday gift? ›

"Money is an appropriate gift," says etiquette expert Elaine Swann, founder of The Swann School of Protocol. "Studies say that it is the most welcomed gift—the one gift that most people want." But gifting money has a lot of questions around it. How much money can you gift to your family?

What is the average amount of money spent on a birthday party? ›

According to a survey from BabyCenter of more than 5,000 parents, one in four reported spending at least $500 on their child's first birthday party alone. While a majority spent $200 or less, 11 percent admitted to spending more than $500.

Is it OK to give someone money for their birthday? ›

Giving money to friends and family. Whether it's a birthday gift or helping a friend when they need it most, gifting comes from the heart. You may want to give as much as you can but you need to understand the exemptions you're entitled to.

Is $150 dollars a good birthday gift? ›

In our opinion, $150 is like the magic number because for that amount you can certainly find something on the fancier end of the spectrum, but it's not such a high price tag that you may make the recipient feel uncomfortable.

Is $100 gift card too much? ›

For co-workers, casual friends and your children's teachers, stay in the $10 to $20 range. Gift cards for close friends and family members can range from $25 to $100. When you're selecting a gift card for a spouse, parent or someone else who's very special, choose a card worth $75 or more.

How much to give for an 18th birthday? ›

But if it's a birthday gift for a close friend or family member—or for a milestone birthday, like turning 18 or 75—it's not uncommon to spend in the $50 to $100 range.

How much money to give for a quinceanera gift? ›

Typically, an average gift amount will be no less than $50. That amount will increase if you have a closer relationship with the family, or if you're helping to pay for part of the party.

What is the average amount for a birthday gift card? ›

The gift card amount people purchase depends mainly on their budget. According to a survey conducted on over 1000 participants, more than 40% said they would spend between $20- $25 on Birthday Gift Cards. This is to say that most people will spend an average of $25 on Birthday Gift Cards.

How much to give a daughter for her 18th birthday? ›

Depends upon a household budget surely, not sure there would be a normal. We put away money monthly since birth and they recieved it on their 18th. I'd say for a special Birthday such as 18th around £500 if affordable.

Is cash an acceptable birthday gift? ›

It's fine. So if there's a wedding, graduation, rite of passage, or holiday on the horizon, and cash is what you want or need, please know that—as a bona fide expert in gift-giving etiquette! —I am telling you it's fine just to say so.

What is a traditional 18th birthday present? ›

Possibly one of the most common traditional 18th birthday gifts of all time is money. This traditional gift might be as simple as a stack of crisp bills or some thoughtfully selected gift cards to help cover practical items like gas or groceries or fun extras such as restaurants, movie tickets or streaming services.

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